Great Sex Techniques That Will Grant Her Heavy Sexual Arousal and Orgasm Easily!

My friend, do not depress when you are facing this problem, your girl has lost her interest in you. She does not crave for sex anymore, not like both of you were just started dating. You cant feel the excitement and arousal in her eye during sex. She never seem to enjoy your manhood and hardly orgasm on the bed now. This is sad…. However let me tell you something, there are a lot of guys facing the same problem as you, including me. I faced this problem few years back and it tortured me every day and night.

What is the reason of this problem exist. I cant tell you exactly because there are actually too many factors that involved. However, one of the most significant cause of it is that couple are losing their “early stage sex magic” due to lack of new sex techniques. What does this mean? Well, when you are just started to have sex, both of you are excited over what will happen next on bed, however after some time, when everything is the same and being repeated numerously, both of you will lose the interest in having sex, especially female who are more sensitive to sexual tension and sexual sensation. Moreover, if you only have 1 or 2 sex techniques to deal with your sexual activities, the sexual fire will fade off and you may even hate to have sex because it lets you feel like a machine….

So, i am going to reveal a few of the greatest sex techniques that you can use at night on the bed.They are awesome and steamy and will definitely heat up the temperature in your bed room!

Let me share these great sex techniques to you which will bring erotic and sensation sexual arousal to your girl:

Sex technique 1) Improved and fine tuned missionary position:

i believe that you know what is missionary position. Now, change from normal style, you let her spread her leg wide open, either resting on your chest or hanging freely in the air, she is lying on the bed. You should knee down in between her widely opened legs and give her the thrust that will eventually make her drop into heavy orgasm.

First, you should start to thrust slowly and stimulate her interest by giving her some rub and caress on her breast and other sensitive body parts, let her feel the sexual tension and excitement. If her reaction is good, gradually increase the thrust speed and give her deeper penetration. Play with her clitoris if necessary. Kiss her when you are in action, the pressure you put on her when you lean forward will grant you a deeper penetration and give her more sexual arousal!

Sex technique 2) Leap Frog sex position:

You can define it as a modification of doggy style sex positions. As we all know, doggy style is quite famous among guys as it gives them the most “instinct” feeling of having sex. Moreover, it give deep penetration which helps to create more sexual arousal for both parties. Leap frog sex position is similar to doggy style but the girl is kneeling down on the bed with her hand bending down. It does not provides ver deep penetration but it is more keen by girl because they may scare of the pain due to deep penetration. Moreover, you can choose to have her leg open or close, both have different sexual sensation. Closed leg will provide more friction when thrusting hence greater feeling, while girl may feel opening leg not so tiring.

Sex technique 3) Cow Girl sex position:

This is the favorite position obsessed by female and it will be the easiest sex technique that allow you to effortlessly make her climax. It is due to the reason that she is the one who controls the whole thrusting. As you can imagine, the cow girl position means that she is riding on you either facing you or your toe (reverse cow girl). She will help you to put your erect penis into herself and she will control the speed, depth and strength of thrusting.

Moreover, she may unconsciously feel that she is dominating over you which will grant her more powerful sexual pleasure. On the other hand, you can add on to this sex technique by fondling her breast if she is facing you, or stimulating her clitoris if she is facing your toe.

You can see that above sex techniques are so simple yet great. If you never try them before, you should check them out tonight on your bed! By doing them correctly and naturally, you will definitely drive your girl into sexual craziness tonight!

20 Things I Learned About Sex After Baby

Six weeks after my second son was born in 2009 I embarked on a “Six Month Sex Challenge”. My motivation was simple: after having my first son (who was 26 months at the time) trying to get sex back on track was, at times, a complete gong show. And that was with me making a concerted effort to have sex at least once a week.

With baby number two, I decided to make sex after a ‘work’ project. For six months I attempted to have sex with my husband at least once a week. (I couldn’t believe the number of people who thought sex once a week wasn’t enough. Really?)

But not just any old sex. Oh no.

I upped the ante by trying out all different sorts of ideas every week like erotic massage, sex toys and sexy board games to see how and if they work. As well, once a week the sex will be all about me and the alternative week the sex will be all about my husband.

We saw how having scheduled and planned out sex worked through exhaustion, teething, flu season and all the other things that got in the way of great sex with two small children.

Six Month Sex Challenge in Retrospect
In a rare quiet moment, it hit me just how much has happened-from positive to negative. Flashes ranging from being so exhausted I seriously thought I was going to lose my mind; to being incredibly happy that I was making efforts; to fights over sex (god!); to extremely tender moments.

The last six months have truly has been a roller coaster ride. And I’ve learned a lot about sex after baby. Why it is just so darn difficult to have. And why it’s important to make the effort.

Here Are the 20 Things I Learned About Having Sex After Baby

(1) Having a decent sex life is work and takes effort. The days of spontaneous sex are over… at least for the next eighteen years.
(2) For at least the first six months, it probably won’t be the best sex of your life… or even close…
(3) There will be fights over sex, even if you’re having sex.
(4) Whatever couple challenges you didn’t resolve before baby, will ultimately be magnified once baby arrives… and it will affect a woman’s will, want and desire for sex.
(5) Sex is so much more than having intercourse. And in fact, at this juncture there is too much emphasis on sex rather than intimacy.
(6) You need to get into the habit, or at the very least communicate about sex early. The longer you leave it, the longer it will sit between the two of you like the big white elephant in the room.
(7) Unless you look for time to spend with your partner (whether you are having sex or not), it won’t happen.
(8) Finding a mutually agreed upon time-some might call this scheduled sex-like baby’s nap time is the best way to make sure sex happens.
(9) Ladies, you have to think like a man when it comes to sex: that is you’ve got to have sex on your terms and not feel guilty taking what you want.
(10) Which means you have to figure out what you want out of the sexual experience-generally it’s about being nurtured-and communicate that to your partner.
(11) When the sex is all about what you want, it will re-energize you.
(12) Having sex is not static (i.e. once a week); rather a constantly evolving entity that needs to be nurtured and respected as much as your new baby’s evolution.
(13) There will never be a perfect time to have sex.
(14) Therefore, you need to have ‘despite’ sex. Despite everything that’s going on, you’ll make an effort to make time for each other.
(15) It’s important to mix things up and bring new ideas in.
(16) All your creative energy can’t go into your kids. Some of it has to be reserved for your partnership.
(17) You can’t let excuses get in the way. It’s way too easy to say, “I’m tired” because you genuinely are tired. Soon though it may turn into an excuse you automatically use without thinking.
(18) Be careful to not consistently have five minute quickie/ ‘maintenance sex’.
(19) Sometimes sex will energize you and you will remember why it’s fun to have.
(20) It’s probably the only time you’re going to be close, so enjoy and make the most of your time together.

Like anything else in life, sex after baby isn’t difficult but it does take two people committed to their relationship.